Dec 28, 2025 "Filled, Not Controlled" (Ephesians 5:17-21)

 

Ephesians 5:17-21 New International Version

¹⁷ Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.

¹⁸ Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit,

¹⁹ speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord,

²⁰ always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

²¹ Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

 

Filled, Not Controlled

Ephesians 5:17-21

 

Many Christians will often quote this passage to warn about alcohol.  

 

Ephesians 5:18 ESV

[18] And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,

 

However, Paul is talking about anything that controls you. Alcohol, money, success, or education can be all things that control your life. None of these things are bad, but if they control your life or fill your life, then it is a problem.

 

Paul contrasts being filled with wine and being filled with the Spirit. The spirit will lead you to life whereas wine will lead you to the world.

 

Many people will fill their lives with success, but that success is not long lasting and needs more success. Money is finite and can leave you easily. Education can lead to anxiety and arrogance. Addiction desires more of you and the long-term results are never beneficial. All of these things in its proper place and moderation are good but should not fill you unlike the Spirit of God.

 

When the Spirit fills you, you naturally give praise. Your life becomes a living sacrifice. Worship does not just happen at church, but will manifest at home, work and wherever you are.

 

Gratitude is also evident of the Spirit's work. Gratitude is not just a list of things that we can look to as evidence of God's blessing. Gratitude is knowing God is good and He is our creator.

 

When the Spirit fills you and your heart is full, you are not trapped by possessions, relationships, successes, or health. You can live and act in gratitude because you have God in your life.

 

God does not ask us to fix our lives, but He wants to know what fills our lives. Jesus calls us to him when we are weary and burdened. He calls us when we are broken and not perfect.

The freedom God offers after He fills us with His Spirit will satisfy and bring true freedom.

 

• Who You Say I Am
• God You're So Good
• Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone)

O Come O Come Emmanuel

O Come O Come Emmanuel (Veni Emmanuel)

John Mason Neale, Thomas Helmore

CCLI Song #31982

© Words: Public Domain; Music: Public Domain

Verse 1

O come O come Emmanuel

And ransom captive Israel

That mourns in lonely exile here

Until the Son of God appear

Chorus

Rejoice rejoice Emmanuel

Shall come to thee O Israel

Verse 2

O come Thou Dayspring come and cheer

Our spirits by Thine advent here

Disperse the gloomy clouds of night

And death's dark shadows put to flight

Verse 3

O come Thou Wisdom from on high

And order all things far and nigh

To us the path of knowledge show

And cause us in her ways to go

Verse 4

O come Desire of nations bind

All peoples in one heart and mind

Bid envy strife and quarrels cease

Fill the whole world with heaven's peace

오소서 임마누엘

1절

오소서, 오소서 임마누엘

사로잡힌 주의 백성 구하소서

외로운 유배지 눈물 속에

주의 아들 오실 날 기다리네

 

후렴

기뻐하라, 기뻐하라 임마누엘

이스라엘에 오시리라

 

2절

오소서, 새벽빛이여 오셔서

주의 오심으로 우리 영혼 위로하소서

어두운 밤의 음울한 구름을 흩으시고

죽음의 그늘을 몰아내소서

 

3절

오소서, 지혜로우신 주여

만유를 다스리시는 주여

지식의 길을 우리에게 보이시고

그 길로 행하게 하소서

 

4절

오소서, 열방의 소망이여

모든 사람 한 마음 되게 하소서

시기와 다툼 그치게 하시고

온 세상에 평화 주소서

Chris Tomlin - O Come, O Come Emmanuel (Lyric Video)

O come, O come, Emmanuel

And ransom captive Israel

That mourns in lonely exile here

Until the Son of God appear

오소서, 오소서 임마누엘

사로잡힌 주의 백성 구하소서

외로운 유배지 눈물 속에

주의 아들 오실 날 기다리네

Rejoice, rejoice, Emmanuel

Shall come to thee, O Israel

기뻐하라, 기뻐하라 임마누엘

이스라엘에 오시리라

O come, Thou Day-Spring

Come and cheer

Our spirits by Thine advent here

Disperse the gloomy clouds of night

And death’s dark shadows put to flight

오소서, 새벽빛이여 오셔서

주의 오심으로 우리 영혼 위로하소서

어두운 밤의 음울한 구름을 흩으시고

죽음의 그늘을 몰아내소서

Rejoice, rejoice, Emmanuel

Shall come to thee, o Israel

기뻐하라, 기뻐하라 임마누엘

이스라엘에 오시리라

1

O come, O come, Emmanuel, 

And ransom captive Israel, 

That mourns in lonely exile here 

Until the Son of God appear.

오소서, 오소서 임마누엘

사로잡힌 주의 백성 구하소서

외로운 유배지 눈물 속에

주의 아들 오실 날 기다리네

Refrain

Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel 

Shall come to thee O Israel

기뻐하라, 기뻐하라 임마누엘

이스라엘에 오시리라

O come, Thou Wisdom from on high,

Who orderest all things mightily;

To us the path of knowledge show, 

And teach us in her ways to go.

오소서, 지혜로우신 주여

능력으로 만유를 다스리시는 주여

우리에게 지식의 길을 보이시고

그 길로 행하게 가르치소서

2

O come, Thou Rod of Jesse, free

Thine own from Satan’s tyranny;

From depths of hell Thy people save, 

And give them vict’ry ov’r the grave.

오소서, 이새의 가지여 오셔서

사탄의 권세에서 풀어주소서

지옥의 깊은 곳에서 구하시고

죽음을 이기게 하소서

3

O come, Thou Day spring, come and cheer 

Our spirits by Thine advent here;

Disperse the gloomy clouds of night, 

And death’s dark shadows put to flight.

오소서, 새벽빛이여 오셔서

주의 오심으로 우리 영혼 위로하소서

어두운 밤의 음울한 구름을 흩으시고

죽음의 그늘을 몰아내소서

4

O come, Thou Key of David, come, 

And open wide our heav’nly home;

Make safe the way that leads on high, 

And close the path to misery.

오소서, 다윗의 열쇠여 오셔서

하늘 집을 활짝 열어주소서

높은 길을 안전히 인도하시고

고통의 길을 닫아주소서

5

O come O come Thou Lord of Might

Who to Thy tribes on Sinai's height

In ancient times didst give the law

In cloud and majesty and awe

오소서, 능력의 주여

시내산에 주의 백성에게

옛날에 율법을 주셨던 주여

구름과 위엄과 놀라움 속에

O Come, O Come, Emmanuel

And ransom captive Israel

That mourns in lonely exile here

Until the Son of God appears

오소서, 오소서 임마누엘

사로잡힌 주의 백성 구하소서

외로운 유배지 눈물 속에

주의 아들 오실 날 기다리네

Refrain

Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel 

Shall come to thee O Israel

기뻐하라, 기뻐하라 임마누엘

이스라엘에 오시리라

O come, Thou Rod of Jesse, free 

Thine own from Satan’s tyranny; 

From depths of hell Thy people save, 

And give them victory o’er the grave. 

오소서, 이새의 가지여 오셔서

사탄의 권세에서 풀어주소서

지옥의 깊은 곳에서 구하시고

죽음을 이기게 하소서

O come, Thou Dayspring, from on high,

And cheer us by Thy drawing nigh; 

Disperse the gloomy clouds of night, 

And death’s dark shadows put to flight. 

오소서, 새벽빛이여 오셔서

주의 오심으로 우리 영혼 위로하소서

어두운 밤의 음울한 구름을 흩으시고

죽음의 그늘을 몰아내소서

O come, Thou Key of David, come 

And open wide our heav’nly home; 

Make safe the way that leads on high, 

And close the path to misery.

오소서, 다윗의 열쇠여 오셔서

하늘 집을 활짝 열어주소서

높은 길을 안전히 인도하시고

고통의 길을 닫아주소서

O come, Adonai, Lord of might, 

Who to Thy tribes, on Sinai’s height,

In ancient times didst give the law 

In cloud and majesty and awe. 

오소서, 능력의 주 아도나이여

시내산에 주의 백성에게

옛날에 율법을 주셨던 주여

구름과 위엄과 놀라움 속에

O Come, O Come Emmanuel - Traditional Choir

Veni Veni Emmanuel

곧 오소서 임마누엘(O Come, O Come, Emmanuel) 새 104

1. 곧 오소서 임마누엘

오 구하소서 이스라엘

그 포로 생활 고달파

메시야 기다립니다

1. O come, O come, Emmanuel,

And ransom captive Israel, 

That mourns in lonely exile here

Until the Son of God appear.

기뻐하라 이스라엘

곧 오시리 오 임마누엘

Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel

Shall come to thee, O Israel!

2. 곧 오소서 지혜의 주

온 만물 질서 주시고

참 진리의 길 보이사

갈 길을 인도하소서

2. O come, Thou Wisdom from on high,

And order all things

far and nigh; To us the path of knowledge show,

And cause us in her ways to go.

3. 곧 오소서 소망의 주

만백성 한 맘 이루어

시기와 분쟁 없애고

참 평화 채워 주소서

3. O come, Desire of Nations; bind

All peoples in one heart and mind, 

Bid envy, strife, and quarrels cease;

Fill the whole world with heaven's peace.

Dec 21, 2025 Christmas

 A Joy That Doesn't Stay Inside  

Luke 1:51-53 

 

All over the world, people celebrate Christmas. You can see people of all ages start to look happier as Christmas comes closer. Perhaps it is because they do not have to work that day or there are special foods and gifts of the season. However, the joy to the world is proclaimed in the Bible. 

 

Mary proclaimed great joy at the coming of Christ.  

 

Luke 1:51-53 ESV 

[51]  He has shown strength with his arm; he has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts; 

[52]  he has brought down the mighty from their thrones and exalted those of humble estate; 

[53] he has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. 

 

She also had great faith in God and sacrificed herself to the world. At the time God asked Mary for open hands and an open heart. This is what Christmas is about. Open hands to receive God's blessing and gift of salvation but also the open heart to have faith and love God and others. We, like Mary, need to offer ourselves to others and to expand God's kingdom. 

 

We cannot keep this joy to ourselves. We need to share this love with others in words and deeds. 

• Hark The Herald Angels Sing (Mendelssohn)
• Angels We Have Heard On High (Gloria)
• O Come All Ye Faithful(Adeste Fideles)
• How Great Is Our God
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